Love isn’t just about the grand gestures; sometimes, it’s in the little moments—like a thoughtful message sent at just the right time. 

Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting out with your new boyfriend, deep love messages for him can strengthen your bond and make him feel as adored as he is.

That said, expressing your love for someone isn’t always easy. If you’ve ever found yourself at a loss for words or worried that your message won’t be “perfect,” don’t worry—what matters most is your sincerity and the effort you put in to let him know how you feel. 

That’s why we’re sharing some helpful love messages you can send to your boyfriend or partner, as well as prompts to help you create your own. We’ll also share some tips to help you get started and show how love journaling through apps like Waffle can open new doors to deeper emotional connection.

Why Send Love Messages?

Love messages aren’t just for anniversaries and Valentine’s Day. They can be an everyday reminder of how much your partner means to you. 

Sometimes, we forget to tell the people closest to us how much they mean to us, especially in long-term relationships where routines take over. But even a simple message like “I love you” or “I feel so lucky to have you in my life” can make his day.

Here are a few reasons why sending love messages to your special man can make a difference:

1. Show Him You Care

Your boyfriend is on your mind all the time…why not let him know it? When you send a love message, you’re taking a moment to say, “I’m thinking about you.” It’s a simple but powerful gesture, especially for those who may not always express their emotions verbally.

In fact, this is exactly why so many Waffle users love to message through the app, rather than share their feelings in person. “While face-to-face communication is invaluable, there are moments when expressing intricate thoughts and emotions can feel daunting. Waffle offers a relaxed environment where I feel more at ease expressing myself openly and honestly,” shares one user.

Whether it’s a short text or a full-on love letter, a heartfelt message shows him that he matters.

2. Build Deeper Intimacy

For some of us, it’s easier to write down your feelings than to say them out loud. As our user Justeen shares, “By using Waffle, it shows me different ways my boyfriend is thinking about me and his feelings even when he’s not telling me verbally how he feels.” Love messages like these give you the space to express things you might not always have the chance to say in person. Whether you’re talking about your true love for him or reminiscing about a special moment, these messages create deeper intimacy by allowing you to share more of yourself.

3. Love Across Distances

Whether it’s a long-distance relationship or just a few days apart for work, love messages help you stay connected. A simple “I miss you” or a reminder of how thankful you are to have him can bridge the emotional distance and make both of you feel closer, no matter how far apart you are.

“I use Waffle to write love letters to my long-distance boyfriend,” says Kira. “It allows us to leave sweet reminders to one another throughout the day! We also have a journal together where we share date ideas for the future.”

Tips for Writing the Perfect Love Message

Writing the perfect love message doesn’t have to be hard. It’s all about being authentic and speaking from the heart. Here are a few tips to help you craft a message that feels true to you and meaningful to him:

1. Be Authentic

Your love is your own! There’s no need to overthink it. The best love messages come from the heart and reflect who you are as a couple. Whether it’s a simple “I love you” or something more elaborate, make sure it sounds like you.

2. Use Specific Moments

Think about a memory or moment that’s special to both of you. It could be the first time you said “I love you” or a small gesture he made that meant a lot to you. Including these details makes your message more personal and thoughtful. 

3. Mix It Up

Worried you’ll sound too sweet and sappy? Your love messages don’t always have to be romantic. Sometimes, playful or lighthearted messages can bring a smile to his face while still showing him you care. Mix it up with a funny inside joke or sending a funny picture you took of him that always makes you smile.

4. Don’t Worry About Length

A love message doesn’t have to be long to be meaningful. Even a few short sentences or a meaningful phrase can show how much you care. Whether you write quick good morning messages, playful love poems, or longer love letters, focus on the feeling behind the words.

5. Use Prompts to Inspire You

If you’re not sure what to say, prompts can help you get started. Apps like Waffle provide daily questions or prompts that encourage you to express your feelings in a unique way that still feels natural. These prompts can also help you tap into emotions you may not even realize you’re ready to share.

Ready-to-Use Deep Love Messages for Him

Sometimes, finding the right words to express your love can be tricky. Or, maybe you want to branch out beyond the typical “I love you” texts. Whether you’re looking for something sweet, heartfelt, or playful, these ready-to-use love messages will help you share your feelings with him. Feel free to use them just as they are, or tweak them to match your voice and style!

1-10: Sweet & Simple Love Messages for Him 

These short and sweet text messages are perfect for showing him how much you appreciate him in a few heartfelt words.

1. Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again.

2. You’re the best part of my day, every day.

3. I love you more than a million words could ever express.

4. Having you by my side means everything to me.

5. You make everything better just by being here.

6. My heart is always with you, no matter where we are.

7. I love waking up next to you every morning.

8. You’re my favorite person, and I’m so grateful for you.

9. Just thinking about you puts a smile on my face.

10. Ours is my favorite love story.

I essentially use waffle to write love letters to my long distance boyfriend.

It allows me to connect in a unique way with my boyfriend and lets us express our feelings whenever we want!

Waffle lets me look back at our journal entries and helps me feel closer to him.

From Kira & her boyfriend, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

11-20: Heartfelt & Romantic Love Messages for Him 

These sweet words are perfect for when you want to go deeper and really express your emotions. Try these on your anniversary, for a special moment, or just because.

11. Every day I spend with you reminds me how lucky I am to have you in my life.

12. I would choose you a thousand times.

13. There’s no one else I’d rather grow old with. You’re my forever.

14. Loving you is the best decision I’ve ever made.

15. You feel like home. I can’t imagine life on earth without you in it.

16. You make me feel like the most special person in the world.

17. No matter what happens, I’ll always be by your side.

18. You make the good times better, the darkest days brighter, and every part of life worth living.

19. You’re not just the love of my life—you’re my best friend.

20. When I’m with you, everything feels right.

It let me know how my partner thinks about things, what makes him happy, what makes him sad. What his inner thoughts are and it brought us so much closer.

From Lamia & her partner, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

21-30: Long-Distance & Missing Him Love Messages 

Whether you're miles apart or just missing him for a few days, these messages help you bridge the emotional distance and remind him how much he means to you.

21. I love you more every single day, and I’m so grateful for everything we share.

22. Good night my love. Even though we’re apart, you’re always in my heart.

23. I miss you more with every day that goes by, but I love you even more.

24. No amount of distance can change how much I love you.

25. Every mile between us just makes me appreciate you more.

26. Being away from you is hard, but it only makes me realize how much you mean to me.

27. No matter how far apart we are, my heart is always with you.

28. I can’t wait until we’re together again—I miss you more than words can say.

29. Distance means so little when you mean so much to me.

30. Being apart has only made my love for you grow stronger.

I use it to journal my day every evening so that my boyfriend can hear about what I've been up to and I can hear what he's been up to, because we are in very different timezones and rarely get to chat or call.

From Emilie & her long-distance boyfriend, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

31-40: Gratitude & Appreciation Love Messages for Him 

Make him glow with your gratitude. These messages show how much you value and appreciate him for the little things he does every day. Whether it’s for being supportive or simply being himself, these love notes highlight why you feel so lucky to have him.

31. Every day we’re apart is a day closer to when we’ll be together again, and I can’t wait for that moment.Thank you for being my rock, even on the days when I don’t say it enough.

32. I appreciate everything you do, big and small—you make my life better just by being in it.

33. You make me feel loved and cared for in ways I never knew were possible.

34. I’m so grateful for the way you’re always there for me, no matter what.

35. You bring so much joy into my life, and I just want to thank you for being you.

36. Just knowing you makes me a better person, and I’m so grateful for that.

37. You make the world feel like a better place, just by being in it.

38. Thank you for always being my safe space—you’re my heart’s home.

39. You’ve given me more love and support than I ever could have asked for, and I’m so grateful.

40. I may not say it every day, but I’m forever thankful for you and everything you do for me.

It has made me examine & discover how much I appreciate my relationship. I couldn't ask for a more loving or supportive man.

From Mariah & her future husband, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

41-50: Promises & Commitment Love Messages for Him 

A little reminder that you believe your love will stand the test of time can build a powerfully strong foundation for your relationship. These messages highlight your long-term love and commitment, expressing how dedicated you are to building a future together. 

41. I promise to always love you, even when life gets tough—together, we can handle anything.

42. You’re my forever, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

43. I’ll always choose you—every day, no matter what.

44. My heart belongs to you, now and forever.

45. I’m committed to making this love last a lifetime, and I know we’ll build something beautiful together.

46. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life loving you.

47. No matter what happens, I’ll always stand by your side—you’re my person.

48. You’re my future, my dream, and my forever—I promise I’ll always work to make you happy.

49. I’m all in, forever and always. You’ve got my heart, and you always will.

50. You and me? We’re a forever kind of love, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Having a shared journal has been amazing for our relationship to grow. It also helps grow our relationship with ourself by reflecting on what we have experienced each day.

I love talking to him about our journals and the prompts given to us by Waffle has also made it fun when we have a slow day.

I love Waffle and what it's done for our relationship.

From Yesenia & her long-distance boyfriend, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

51-60: Strength & Support Love Messages for Him 

Is your partner going through a rough patch? There’s no better time to tell him how much he means to you. In moments of hardship or challenge, these messages will show him that you’re always there to support and encourage him, no matter what he’s facing.

51. Whatever you’re going through, I’ll be right here beside you—you’re never alone.

52. I believe in you more than words can say, and I know you’ve got what it takes to overcome anything.

53. No matter how tough things get, I’ll always have your back.

54. You’ve got this—and even if you doubt yourself, I’ll never doubt you.

55. You’re strong, capable, and amazing, and I’m here to remind you of that whenever you need it.

56. When you’re feeling down, remember that I’m always here to lift you up.

57. I’m proud of how hard you work and how strong you are—you’re an inspiration to me every day.

58. No matter what life throws at us, I know we’ll face it together.

59. You don’t have to carry everything on your own—I’m always here to help you through.

60. You’re stronger than you know, and I’m here to remind you of that whenever you need me.

By using Waffle, it shows me different ways my boyfriend is thinking about me and his feelings even when he’s not telling me verbally how he feels.

It has let us become closer as partners and I’m grateful for this app.

From Justeen & her long-distance boyfriend, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

61-70: Funny & Playful Love Messages for Him 

What if you’re not the romantic type? Or perhaps you want to mix things up and make him chuckle? Think about what makes your relationship uniquely funny—inside jokes, shared quirks, or playful teasing. If your relationship is built on laughter, these playful messages will make him smile and show your love in a fun way. 

61. You’re my favorite distraction, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

62. I love you more than Netflix on a rainy day.

63. Your voice is my favorite playlist.

64. I love you even when you steal the covers!

65. You’re the peanut butter to my jelly, and I wouldn’t change a thing.

66. You make me laugh harder than anyone else—what would I do without you?

67. I love how you always know how to make me smile, even when I’m grumpy.

68. You’re the only one I’d share my fries with… and that’s saying something!

69. You’re my favorite weirdo, and I love every bit of you.

70. Who needs a superhero when I’ve got you?

Bonus: You and me—we’re like coffee and donuts: perfect together.

I also enjoy the continued prompted questions, as it helps us to laugh and get to know each other better even though we've been married for 20 years.

From Faith & her husband, keeping a marriage journal on the Waffle app

71-88: Love Quotes & Song Lyrics for Him

If you’re looking for extra inspiration, why not borrow from some of the most beautiful love quotes and song lyrics ever written? Whether it’s a classic line from literature or a touching lyric from a favorite song, these words can help you express your love in a unique and meaningful way.

Romantic Quotes

71. You have bewitched me, body and soul, and I love, I love, I love you. — Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

72. I’ve loved you three summers now, honey, but I want ’em all. — Taylor Swift

73. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same. — Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë

74. I saw that you were perfect, and so I loved you. Then I saw that you were not perfect, and I loved you even more. — Angelita Lim

75. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I’ve ever had. — The Notebook

76. You make me want to be a better man. — As Good As It Gets

77. My heart is, and always will be, yours. — Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen

78. You are my sun, my moon, and all my stars. — E.E. Cummings

I love being able to know when he's thinking about me and what he's thinking about.

From Jay & her partner, keeping a shared journal on the Waffle app

Love Song Lyrics 

79. I could make you happy, make your dreams come true / Nothing that I wouldn’t do. — Bryan Adams, "(Everything I Do) I Do It For You"

80. You're still the one I run to, the one that I belong to / You're still the one I want for life." — Shania Twain, "You're Still the One"

81. Take my hand, take my whole life too / For I can’t help falling in love with you." — Elvis Presley, "Can’t Help Falling in Love"

82. How sweet it is to be loved by you. — Marvin Gaye, "How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved By You)"

83. You're my end and my beginning / Even when I lose, I’m winning. — John Legend, "All of Me"

84. I’ll be your crying shoulder / I’ll be love suicide / And I’ll be better when I’m older / I’ll be the greatest fan of your life. — Edwin McCain, "I’ll Be"

85. And I’d give up forever to touch you / ‘Cause I know that you feel me somehow. — Goo Goo Dolls, "Iris"

86. Cause all of me loves all of you / Love your curves and all your edges. — John Legend, "All of Me"

87. I could stay awake just to hear you breathing / Watch you smile while you are sleeping. — Aerosmith, "I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing"

88. Wild thing, you make my heart sing – The Troggs, “Wild Thing”

My husband and I use Waffle as a shared journal to document our life together -- the highs, lows, and little things in between.

We'll often write cute little love notes in our Waffle for the other to find later, too. It's been such a great tool for helping us build a strong foundation in our marriage.

From Amber & her husband, keeping a marriage journal on the Waffle app

89-98: Prompts to Help You Write Your Own Deep Love Messages

How about getting creative and writing something more personal? These prompts will help inspire you to write your own unique love messages.

89. What’s something he does every day that makes you smile?

90. Think of a moment that made you realize how much you love him. What was that moment, and how did it make you feel?

91. What qualities does he have that make you proud to be with him?

92. What’s something small that he does to make you feel loved?

93. Describe how he’s changed your life in one sentence.

94. What’s your favorite memory together, and how can you remind him of that moment?

95. What’s one thing you admire most about his personality?

96. How do you feel when you’re with him, and how can you put that feeling into words?

97. What’s a goal or dream you share together that excites you?

98. Think of a time when he supported you. How can you express your gratitude for that moment?

It has helped open a new line of communication for us. While I don't always have anything to write about, the waffle question of the day is a good " ice breaker."

From Trish & her boyfriend, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

99-100: And on that note, here’s one last tip! Write a love poem.

If you’re feeling creative, try turning your feelings into a simple love poem. It doesn’t have to rhyme or be lengthy—it’s just another way to express your love in a unique and personal way. You could start with something as simple as:

Though you're far away,
My love for you stays close, constant.
Distance means nothing,
When my heart is still with you,
No matter where you are.

Or try a fun haiku: 

Your love wakes me up,
Like coffee in the morning,
Warm, strong, and steady.

Whether it’s playful, romantic, or heartfelt, a poem can capture emotions that are hard to express in everyday conversation. Let your creativity take the lead, and don’t be afraid to experiment—after all, he’ll love knowing you took the time to put your feelings into words just for him.

To write "I love you"s to each other

From Sam & his partner, keeping a couples journal on the Waffle app

Send Your Next Deep Love Message with Waffle!

Sending sweet love messages is one of the simplest but most powerful ways to keep your relationship strong. Remember, it’s not about being a perfect poet. It’s about showing him how much he means to you. 

Ready to try it yourself? With daily prompts and thoughtful questions, Waffle helps you make love journaling and heartfelt messages a natural part of your relationship. 

So download the Waffle app today and give it a go – whether it’s a short and sweet note, a heartfelt declaration, or a funny message to make him smile. Each message is a step toward a deeper connection, more love, and a stronger bond that will last.